My tree is maintained under my daughter's name (she's big into the DAR): Ray Family Tree by holberttm in Ancestry.
I've done nothing on the Haddam Ray's since I found that my Ezra Ray was the son of John Ray from Litchfield CT--eventually from Daniel Ray who emigrated to the Massachusetts Colony by 1629.
One researcher says that the Haddam Ray's may be related to the Massachusetts Rays, but until a male Ray from Haddam gets DNA tested, we can't be positive, since there is currently no paper trail.
I haven't read the Bio on James. Can you send me a link at firstname.lastname@example.org
(that is my genealogy email account)?