I have a great deal of Parmelee data, but I don't have anything on Harold in data. However I did check Ancestry and I found Harold Iva Parmelee, b. 1914 in NY. It says that he married Bertha Ann Cooke who was b. in New Haven, CT, 1920. You might check with Jim Walters who use to publish the "Parmelee Newsletter" or Frank Parmelee. I don't remember their email address, but if you go to the Killingworth page on Middlesex County, USGenWeb site. Frank's email is there and he maybe able to help or tell you how to contact Jim Walters.