I would love to see the obits for Julia's parents. I, too, wondered about the missing children in the 1920 census. Maybe they were adopted or could they have been at someone else's house? Since I have access to the Hartford Courant archives, I have found quite a bit on the Boyce - Cary divorce proceedings. I think I'm set for that. The 2009 Springfield MA obit for Charles Alanson Cary stated that his parents were George Cary & Adeline Miller. One of the Courant divorce articles said that George had been seen kissing a pretty woman from Torrington. So finding an Adeline Miller of the right age in the 1920 Torrington cesus led me to make the tenous connection. Thanks for your help.
Bob Foran - CTcordy111@comcast.net