I found in 1875 c in bethel a Jacob myers
Do not know if he is the one i am researching.
From ancestry research Jacob Myers b.c1828 Germany and wife Mary Frenner
had sons Jacob and Isaac (b.3/18/1851ny)
1900c of new haven has Isaac with his children jennie,Celia, Adelaide,Charlotte, Gertrude, Frederick, and Hiram. Most of them are interred in beaversdale .parkcem. I think Jacob 's dod may be between 1875 and 1880.
hoping someone has access to city directory or other source.
Advice very welcome.