Debbie was my best friend. She had 3 boys, Ryan, Dana, &Adam. She had a brother "Jaime", & maybe others. She died in 1987 in Sonoma, Ca. We used to work together in Sonoma, Ca. I miss her a lot and would like to find out where she is buried. Maybe Marin County.She also had an ex-husband, Gary Steier. PLEASE HELP