Did you ever figure out where the cemetary was located? It could be on the highway 12 side instead of the hwy 26 corridor? I will ask a neighbor who grew up over near Stone Corral if he knows anything about that.

The Kirk family cemetery is on private property and is now in San Joaquin County. It is near the Stone Corral Church on Highway 26. The owners of the property only allow family members to view the cemetery. I do have a list of who is buried there if you want to let me know the name you are checking on.

Hell'o I just came asross your post of 2006 on the Kirk cemetary. I am a Kirk decendant , My gr.gr.Grandfather & gr.gr.gr.Grandfasther are buried there.Thomas Kirk ,Thomas Jefferson Kirk. Tho.Jefferson was Married to Phoebe Kinf. he was accidently kikked by an Indian ASny info you could pass along would be appreciated. Thanks
Rhae

The Kirk Cemetery was in Calaveras Co.originally but is now in San Joaquin Co. and located on privately owned land. There are many others in the cemetery besides Kirks with the largest other group being Crewsdons.
I have little on Thomas Kirk and no listing for his wife.
1860 Census Angels Camp
Kirk, William Age 28 Born Ark. Miner.
1870 Census Copperopolis
Kirk, Henry Age 35 Born VA Laborer
1870 Census Copperopolis
Kirk, John Age 24 Born MO Farmer
1880 Census , Twp. 10, Calaveras Co.
Kirk, W.C Age 29 Born MO
Mary Age 24 Born MO
William Age 8 Born CA
Edward Age 6 Born CA
Lulu Age 5 Born CA
Caswell Age 4 Born CA
Most of the Kirks in the census records lived in San Joaquin County which is where the Kirk Cemetery is now located. It is on private land and the owners will only allow family of the buried to view the cemetery.

DEATHS
Kirk, Barbara May 5/1/1877 Ripon, CA-5/19/1948 West Point, CA. Mother: Brower. Father: Wimer. Buried in the Kirk Cemetery near Linden, CA. Age 75 years, 18 days. Children Maude Doris; Lovenia; Gale Harley; Beth; John Ross; Joseph Livingston; William; Samuel; Frank.
Also buried in the Kirk cemetery are Barbara Wimer 3/1/143-10/25/1916; Henry C. Wimer 1/12/1839-1/28/1906; Rozella E. Wimer 7/8/183-8/5/1912.
Kirk, Dorothy 7/8/1917 CA-7/21/1984 Sacramento. Mother: Anderson. Father: Congdon. Buried in West Point. Wife of John Ross Kirk.
Kirk, Evans P. “Dix” 1862 in Linden, CA- 8/19/1941 Linden. Buried in Kirk Cemetery. Age 79
Kirk, Frank Wesley 10/2/1901 Bellota, CA- 11/1/1911 Calaveras Co. Mother Barbara Wimer. Father Giles Kirk Livingston. Buried in Jenny Lind. Age 74. Wife Ellen.
Kirk, George W. 1825-1911. Buried in the Hubert plot in Milton Cemetery.
Kirk, Giles Livingston 1856-1936 Husband of Barbara. Buried in Kirk Cemetery.
Kirk, Irene Ellen 9/13/1903 NB-4/28/1978 Kirk Ranch, Burson, CA. Mother Lydia Ann English. Father David Warren. Age 74. Funeral charged to Mervyn Kirk.
Kirk, James D. 4/29/1823 VA- 3/10/1912 Jenny Lind, CA. Mother Margaret. Father John Kirk. Buried in Kirk Cemetery.
Kirk, John Samuel 12/13/1852 CA- 3/10/1912 Jenny Lind, CA. Mother Mary Jane Pepper. Father John William Kirk. Buried in Kirk Cemetery. Age 59 years, 2 mo. 27 days. Farmer. Single
Kirk, John W. 2/22/1822- 1/1/1893 Calaveras Co. CA. Age 70, 8 mo., 20 days. Buried in Kirk Cemetery.
Kirk, Louisa 11/4/1836 TN- 4/26/1922 Milton, CA. Age 85 year, 5 mo. 22 days. Widow of George W. Kirk. Buried in Milton, CA
Kirk, Malinda C. Died 8/21/1858 Age 9 months, 5 days. Mother M.J. Kirk. Father John W. Kirk. Buried in Kirk cemetery.
Kirk, Margaret Etna 10/1/1866 IA- 7/8/1939 San Andreas, CA. Mother Barbara Brower. Father Henry Clay Wimer. Wife of Evans Pierce Kirk. Age 72,
Kirk, Mary J. Died 9/10/1869. Wife of J. W. Kirk. Age 41, 7 mo. 19 days. Buried in Kirk Cemetery.
Kirk, Maudie D. 11/17/1907-1/13/1911 Mother Barbara M. Father Giles L. Kirk. Age 4. Buried in Kirk Cemetery
Kirk, Phoebe Died 8/1/1881. Father William Kirk. Age 6 years, 5 months. Slipped into a hole and drowned in the Calaveras River.
Kirk, Sara A.E. Died 4/22/1865. Mother M.J. Kirk. Father John W. Kirk. Age 17 year, 10 mo. 21 days. Buried in Kirk Cemetery.
Kirk, Thomas J. Born Giles Co, CA. Died 3.18.1851. Age 30 years, 5 months. Buried in Kirk Cemetery.
Kirk, William T. Died 10/6/1855. Mother M.J. Kirk. Father John W. Kirk, Age 1 year, 8 mo. 12 days. Buried in Kirk Cemetery.
4 unknown freed slaves of the Kirk Family. Buried in the Kirk Cemetery.

DIVORCES
Kirk, Constance from Francis E. 6/9/1976
Kirk, Fay from Wesley 9/21/1961
Kirk, Mary from Francis 9/7/1961
Kirk, Velda R. from Mervyn A. 10/4/1967

MARRIAGES
Kirk, Frederick Allen to Huston, Joan Marie 7/26/1979
Kirk, Frank W. to Warren, Irene Ellen 4/13/1925
Kirk, William C. to Harris, Mary E. 4/18/1871
Kirk, Fay Fredericka to Larkin, Ray Irving 5/16/1966
Kirk, Mary Elizabeth to Ball, Raymond Laverne 6/15/1951

BIRTHS
Kirk, David Livingston 1/17/1931 Father Joseph L. Kirk. Mother: Kunkle
Kirk, Marline Darlena 8/24/1944 in Pasadena. Father Harley Kirk.
Kirk, Mary Elizabeth 1/1/1933 Mother: Kunkle
Kirk, Sharon Rose 7/11/1943 in Lodi. Father Frank Kirk.

There are quite a few probate files at the county archives.:
George W. Kirk 3/25/1905 Box 76, file 1266
Giles Kirk 11/13/1936 Box 99, file 2417
J.S Kirk 3/10/1912 Box 13, no file #
John W. Kirk 1892 Box 13. no file #
You can email the Calaveras County Archives at Calaverasarchives@att.net
They charge $10 an hour for research and 25 cents a copy for each page plus postage. Since you know the boxes the probates are in the research time will be minimal.
There are also land patents for several Kirks in Calaveras County. Andrew, John S.; John T. ; John W. and George Kirk all had land patents. You can pay the archivist to research this for you or you might be able to find them on a BLM website if you do a search.