3 fam.of Pilgrim's live near each other on the 1880 census. Stone Co. Franklin Townshp. I feel they are all related. Harriet(29) is a widow w/3yr old Ollie as the last child. That gives you a close date of Mr. Pilgrim's death. If she m.again that is the reason for the unknown and confusion. I am from that group :>) Ollie is my ggma. I have old pics that I thought were Langston's..now I realize they are Pilgrim's.Anyone that would like me to send along, just email me please. On the back of one,states mother Pruit and manie and me all uncles and nephew are ded, next one is a family reunion with hardly no men, except my ggpa John Inlow sitting at an outside table w ice tea and fried chicken. Kat thayoakl@aol.com