so the boys went with her? we are looking for 4 people, not one/ easier to search for a known last name - wagnitz, or wagner, or whatwver they may have changer it to, than searching for a woman with an unknown last name, who may still be alive, by the way. or are the boys still in germany? they arent in touch with her? or their cousins, aunts. uncles? and yes, it is a clue because unless she wed in germany, she was mrs wagnitz here until she wed the soldier.