ok, i got to excited and I'm correcting some things:
"Grandfather passed away back in 96 i think his name was Guadalupe Porras." I think he passed in 96, his name IS Gaudalupe Porras. LOL
"I don't know to much about my grandmother's side of the family other than my grandfather didn't like them because they abandoned my aunt after they had a sister that was born with a mental disability and they left my grandmother to take care of her". This should be "abandoned my grandmother" not "aunt"
I couldn't figure out how to edit my post. Anyways, again, can't wait to hear from you!