Agree, she is very confusing, her birth is successively reported as 1856 in Brighton (Carrying Place); 1858 in Rochester, USA; 1861 in England and 1863 in Ontario!
I can't confirm whether she is part of my wife's family: Elizabeth Carr b in Brighton abt 1859 and her sister Mary Ann b in Cramahe abt 1857. Elizabeth and Mary Ann's parents were Robert Carr and Rebecca Ford. Their mother remarried in Jan 1863 (in Brighton township), so Robert likely passed away when the girls were very young. Census records for Elizabeth and Mary Ann say they were of German origins, with both parents born in Ontario. My father-in-law said he had Pennsylvania Dutch ancestors which is consistent.