Hi, If the Cemetery is still in operation - Have you considered contacting the Cemetery Office - They will have records of All burials there - perhaps including family members
re: James Alexander FRANK 1860 - 1894
They will know - name - age - date and place of death / burial
section/ Plot/ grave - etc
They will know the name of the Funeral Home/ Undertaker in charge. Whether or not there had been a stone placed at the grave.
http://geneofun.on.ca/cems/ON/ONHLD11102May be able to advise
http://www.saintcd.com/directory/parishes/cayuga/st-stephen....