Very generous of you to post that search. Thx.
I have found all the Farrells you list. Also can't find him in Kingston before marriage.
I have every indication that John J Crowley b.1853 was born and lived in Kingston until move to Chicago in 1891-2, but also can't find him in Kingston, either. I keep trying to put him with Honora and Hugh, also.
Re marriage of Ann Ward and John Farrell, there are FOUR separate records, each with the same info and 'players,' but two with 1872 and two with 1873 dates! Seems the ledgers were re-entered/written.