This message will not answer your cemetery question but is a mix of Stafford and Byers information. I believe I found the baptisms of some of Henry and Jane's children.
http://www.byersfamilies.com/resources/Ballyjamesduff%20Pres...Ballyjamesduff Presbyterian Church
Henry Stafford & Jane Stafford alias Jane Byars of Bellasis (Presbyterian Church)
Anne, aged 8 days, baptised 3.06.1839
Mary, aged 1 month, baptised 09.09.1840 (family now “of Carrickmore”)
Robert, aged 3 weeks, baptised 10.04.1842 (still Carrickmore)
James, aged 6 weeks, baptised 20.05.1846
Hannah, born 11.06.1848, baptised 22.11.1848
Alex, aged 5 months, baptised 03.08.1850 (family now “of Shankill, parish of Ballymachugh”)
Note that in the above link was this:
Ben [Benjamin] Stafford & Jane Stafford alias Jane Byars of Cagahishee
Eliza, aged 3 weeks, baptised, 06.07.1827
This daughter, Eliza, died in Manvers Tp., Durham County, Ontario:
Name: Eliza Armstrong
Event Type: Death
Event Date: 26 Jun 1912
Event Place: Manvers, Durham, Ontario
Gender: Female
Age: 87
Birth Date: 06 Jun 1825
Father's Name: Benjamin Stafford
Mother's Name: Sarah J. Byers
http://www3.sympatico.ca/karen.black/magill04.htmlThis is interesting in that Benjamin McGill, son of William McGill and Susan Byers immigrated from Cavan Ireland to Manvers Tp., Durham County. In this write-up, it gives the wife of Benjamin McGill/Magill as Annie Byers. It states that William Henry Magill and Susan Byers were in 1821 living in House No. 5 Derrylahan Township, Cavan County. Also on this same census, and mentioned as being possible relatives were:
House Number 12 Robert Byers - Age 47 - Farmer
Anne Byers - His Wife - Age 43 - Spinner
John Byers - His Son - Age 20 - Labourer Henery Byers - His Son - Age 16 - Labourer James Byers - His Son - Age 14 - Labourer
Mary Byers - His Daughter - Age 12 - Spinner
Dolly Byers - His Daughter - Age 10
Jane Byers - His Daughter - Age is under one year (could this be the future wife of Henry Stafford?)
Ellinor Smyth - Age 20 - House Servant
James McCahill - Age 23 - Servant and Labourer
https://sites.google.com/site/countycavanirelandgenweb/censu...Listed immediately after William Magil and Susana Byers, for the 1821 census, in House Number 6 was:
John Stafford - Age 34 - Labourer
Catherine Stafford - His Wife - Age 30 - Spinner
Thomas Stafford - His Son - Age is under one year
Margaret Stafford - His Daughter - Age 3
Also in the above write-up, the Stafford name is mentioned 18 times with Robert McGill and Letitia Stafford ending up in Manvers Tp., Durham County, Ontario, by 1832.
(compare the names and ages with the baptismals above for the first link provided in Ireland)
1861 Ontario Census Dist. 3 - Manvers Tp., Durham County, pg. 34
Henry Stafford Carpenter b. Ireland Free Church 41 married
Jane Stafford b. Ireland 40 married
Ann Stafford b. Ireland 21
Jane Stafford b. Ireland 17
James Stafford Labourer b. Ireland 15
Hannah Stafford b. Ireland 13
Alexander Stafford Labourer b. Ireland 11
Emline Stafford b. Upper Canada 4
Henry Stafford b. Upper Canada 2
Source: County Marriage Registers of Ontario 1858-1869 Volume 14 Durham County page 21 -
1862-08-14
COPELAND John age 22 of Manvers Township born Ireland s/o COPELAND Joseph and wife EVENBY Ann to STAFFORD Jane age 18 of Manvers Township born Ireland d/o STAFFORD Henry and wife Jane BYERS
Birth: Copeland, Ella Ann: 27 December 1869, child of John Copeland and Jane Stafford, Manvers
Birth: Copeland, Llewella: 20 December 1871, child of John Copeland and Jane Stafford, Manvers
Name: Hollister John Copeland
Date of Birth: 10 May 1877
Gender: Male
Birth Place: Durham, Ontario, Canada
Father's name: John Copeland
Mother's name: Jane Stafford
1871 Ontario Census 50 - Durham County West, D5 - Clarke Tp.
Philip Merritt 39 b. 1832 Jersey married
Ann Merritt 32 b. Ireland married
Freddy Merritt 5 b. Ontario
Ada Merritt 3 b. Ontario
Evaline Merritt 8/12 b. Ontario
Name: Henry Stafford, Carpenter
Gender: Male
Birth Year: abt 1817
Birth Place: Carrickmore County Cavan, Ireland
Age at Death: 60
Death Date: 25 Nov 1877
Death Place: Manvers Tp., Northumberland and Durham, Ontario, Canada
informant: Jane Stafford, Widow of Manvers
Name: Anne Marett, Widowed, res. Toronto, at place of death for 19 yrs.
Event Type: Death
Event Date: 18 Jul 1931
Event Place: Toronto, York, Ontario
Gender: Female
Age: 92
Birth Year : Jan 6 1838
Father's Name: Henry Stafford b. Ireland
Mother's Name: Jane Byers b. Ireland
informant: daughter Ethel Marett of Toronto
burial: Prospect Cemetery
https://familysearch.org/pal:/MM9.3.1/TH-1951-21273-18155-74...Death register for Alexander Stafford b. Feb 7 1849; even though it says his father was Robert Stafford, I think this should be John; his mother is named as Jane Byers; he was married & in Buffalo NY on the 1880 Census then went to Illinois then to Ohio by 1900. Alexander's wife was Mary O'Hara per their daughter, Jennie M. Stafford's marriage register in Ohio to Carl C. Vetter. Jennie was born in Buffalo, NY