Carolyn, I love you! You gave me a lot of information that I have to slowly go over, but yes, I think you found the family. This is my entry in find-a-grave. https://www.findagrave.com/cgi-bin/fg.cgi?page=gr&GSmid=...
John McLaughlin Sr. And John McLaughlin jr. Along with Saraphie Gaudet McLaughlin, and Ella McLaughlin are buried all together in the Church Point old cemetery in NS.
Thank you so much for taking the time to research this. I can't believe I missed all of this!!!