Some updates/corrections on this posting ...
His name was Thomas Deé (note accent) based on a letter from his mother. His father was Tomasz Deé. He was first married to an Ilona Kardos probably in 1901 and then married 2nd to Helen Jurigayi in the U.S., but her location is correct on birth. Tibor must have been the son from the first marriage.
The Tamasne is just a derivation of her husband's name so that isn't her name really.
Finally they were all devout Roman Catholic's in religion.
Any help would be appreciated.
Respectfully,
Kevin Strattan