Thank you so much. As i read this, I remembered Gertrude telling us that she had lived in Buffalo.
I've been trying to find information on the auto accident in Wash/Oregon which killed them, but thus far no luck. It was a long time ago, I'm not sure my memory is accurate here, but maybe in the 1970-1980's.
Do you have any suggestions as to how I could perhaps dig up this info?
Thanks again