Hi!
We are most definitely cousins! Since I posted that note years ago, I have connected with our cousins in Tortola, much to my delight. We have had some success in tracing our Todman line back to Charles Frederick Todman and his wife Leah Fraser Todman, Henry and Ernest's parents, as well as their ancestors. I have much to share about them and several other Todman cousins that we have been researching. I'll inbox you with contact info.
R