Hi Jacki, please don't worry about it, we all make mistakes, Me more than most! lol,
You'd think that with it being my Grandad it would be easy to research, even more so since I found a long lost Aunt still living who was Albert Henry's daughter (informant on his d cert)I was quite proud of myself when I traced her! especially since she had moved back to my area 17 years ago! I found her address and visited, when I introduced myself she seemed genuinely Happy to see me and my sis, we sat and chatted for a while, we even saw a photo of my Grandad, but I thought it would be rude to interrogate her with all the questions I needed an answer to, so we exchanged numbers, to arrange another meeting, 'But' when we did call her up she was quite evasive and didn't want to talk??? so I wrote her a letter and still no reply? I'm not sure why she changed her mind about meeting us again and I'm sad to say we may never find out because she is in her late 80's