Hi Kelly,

As Alex says, strongly recommend chasing MI's or, better, see if you can get someone fron the Ayrshire list who lives in Ayrshire to go speak to the cemetary officers in Maybole itself.
My cousin did thsi & found out the names of our incoming ancestors father & mother - & we are farliy sure we have now tracked them on the IGI in Antrim
(Oddly, my ancestor was a Thomas (mckinstry) married to a Helen, too)

Good luck
Brian McKinstray
Arbroath, Scotland