There is something called Google with a younger brother/sister called Bing - I haven't actually met a computer which is not equipped with one or the other or both - although I can be corrected. You simply type in Families in British India or FIBIS and you will get so many web-sites that I think you would be more confused if I tried to put all of them on a message board. Doing it that way will allow you to pick out the one that suits you best. I would not presume to "recommend" any of them - I have no interest in India apart from general history. It is really very simple - even for the totally confused and exhausted!