Dear John,
here is a plain list, infortunately the only Ellen does not appear to be the right one. If you would like more details of any of these (such as how they tie in to my wife's family tree), let me know. Also if you are unable to visit Blackfield cemetery and would like notes taken of the Musselwhites, I would be happy to do so. Incidentally I hope the layout comes through correctly as I don't know how to adjust it for posted messages.
Names appearing in the BUNDAY family tree (dates with 'c' = circa are guesses; red = direct line)
Names in italics are culled from Victorian directories
Surname Forenames Birth Marriage Death Relationship notes
BARROW Donald 1934 26.12.1960 - husband of Violet BUNDAY son of Harry BARROW
Blackfield
BARROW Harry Leslie c1908 c1933 - husband of (?) father of Donald BARROW
Langley
BARROW Violet (nee BUNDAY)
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BOUND Charles Louis bc1856 in Dibden Purlieu Cricket team 1886
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BOUNDY/BUNDEY 05.10.1820 c1845 01.03.1896 husband of Hannah ORMAN son of Joseph BUNDEY
Francis
BOUNDY/BUNDEY (nee ORMAN)
Hannah
BOUNDY/BUNDAY/BUNDEY/BUNDY c1795 - husband of Sarah MARTELL son of (?) BUNDY
William c1770
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BUNDAY (?) c1871 c1896 - father of Leonard BUNDAY son of Charles BUNDAY
BUNDAY Abraham 11.01.1818 - - son of John BUNDAY
BUNDAY Annie c1822 c1848 - wife of Josias NICHOLAS dtr of Joseph BUNDEY
BUNDAY Annie c1845 c1866 - 1st wife of James BUNDAY (nee ?)
BUNDAY Annie Amelia 1892 c1942 - wife of Arthur BUNDAY (nee /)
BUNDAY Arthur Frank 1917 c1942 24.04.1963 husband of Annie BUNDAY unknown
BUNDAY Audrey c1910 c1930 - wife of Frank BUNDAY (nee ?)
BUNDAY Beatrice Ann c1930 c1950 - wife of Ronald BUNDAY (nee ?)
BUNDAY Charles unknown 1865 carpenter, Dibden
BUNDAY Charles Henry 31.10.1841 c1866 - husband of (?) son of Thomas BUNDAY
BUNDAY Ellen 1836 (?) 30.12.1910 2nd wife of James BUNDAY (nee ?)
BUNDAY Emily Jane 1867 c1905 11.04.1933 wife of James BUNDAY (nee ?)
BUNDAY Emma 1832 c1857 27.03.1915 wife of Josias BUNDAY (nee ?)
BUNDAY/BUNDY (nee GREY)
Emma
BUNDAY Fanny 1822 - - dtr of James BUNDAY
BUNDAY Fanny c1819 04.09.1839 - wife of John PETT
Exbury Exbury
BUNDAY Frank 1904 c1930 11.01.1960 husband of Audrey (?) bur. at Dibden
BUNDAY Frank (see Arthur)
BUNDAY George unknown 1865 carpenter, Frost Lane Common
BUNDAY Hannah c1805 c1826 note wife of Henry BUNDAY (nee ?) d. 11.07.1880 or 14.10.1887
BUNDAY Hannah 30.04.1820 - note dtr of James BUNDAY d. 11.07.1880 or 14.10.1887
BUNDAY Heather 17.11.1829 c1854 - wife of (?) WATERIDGE
BUNDAY Heather Josephine 28.06.1952 - - dtr of Ronald BUNDAY
BUNDAY Henry 1801 c1826 19.05.1872 husband of Hannah (?)
BUNDAY Jack 1902 - 27.12.1913 son of (?) BUNDAY brother of Leonard BUNDAY
BUNDAY Jane 29.10.1732 - - sister of (?) dtr of Edward BUNDY
Hurstbourne Priors
BUNDAY Jane (nee ORMAN)
BUNDAY James c1795 c1820 - husband of Lucy (?) son of William BOUNDY
Lepe
BUNDAY James 1841 c1866 24.01.1913 husband of 1) Annie (?)
East Hill 2) Ellen
BUNDAY James unknown 1865 wheelwright/carpenter, Dibden
BUNDAY James 1869 c1905 14.05.1941 husband of Emily (?) son of James BUNDAY
BUNDAY/BUNDY 7.1828 c1853 - husband of Emma GREY son of James BUNDY
James Frank
BUNDAY James T. unknown 1865 collector, tax/S'ton Benev. Socy./agent, 4 Upper Portland Ter.
BUNDAY John c1796 c1821 - husband of Mary (?) son of William BOUNDY
BUNDAY Josias 1832 c1857 07.08.1905 husband of Emma (?) unknown
BUNDAY Leonard Harold 26.08.1897 c1922 - husband of (?) son of (?) BUNDAY
BUNDAY Lucy c1800 c1820 - wife of James BUNDAY (nee ?)
BUNDAY Mary c1800 c1821 - wife of John BUNDAY (nee ?)
BUNDAY Mary 1811 09.1836 - wife of Samuel YOUNG
Exbury

Names appearing in the BUNDAY family tree (dates with 'c' = circa are guesses; red = direct line)
Names in italics are culled from Victorian directories
Surname Forenames Birth Marriage Death Relationship notes
BUNDAY Mary Ann c1820 10.1840 - wife of David MOTT dtr of Joseph BUNDEY
Eling Exbury
BUNDAY Ronald c1925 c1950 - husband of Beatrice BUNDAY son of Leonard BUNDAY
Exbury
BUNDAY Samuel c1825 c1850 - husband of Jane ORMAN son of Henry BUNDAY
BUNDAY Thomas c1825 c1850 - husband of Elizabeth (?) son of Henry BUNDAY
BUNDAY Thomas unknown 1865 carpenter, Dibden
BUNDAY Violet Caroline 1943 26.12.1960 - wife of Donald BARROW dtr of Walter BUNDAY

BUNDAY Walter John c1917 c1942 - husband of (?) son of Leonard BUNDAY
Blackfield
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BUNDEY Charles unknown 1864 blacksmith 12 West St, Fareham
BUNDEY Frederick unknown 1864 Beaulieu Ho, Cambridge Rd
BUNDEY Frederick unknown 1864 19 Oxford Rd, Bevois Mt
BUNDEY/BUNDY unknown 1864 42 St Denys Rd, Portswood Rd,
George Southampton
BUNDEY H. & Sons unknown 1864 builders, decorators, plumbers, Cambridge Rd. & 134 Avenue Rd, Bevois Mt, The Avenue, S'ton
BUNDEY James unknown 1864 'Lamb' P.H. 63 West St, Fareham
BUNDEY Joseph c1797 c1819 - husband of (?)
Langley
BUNDEY Joseph unknown 1864 rate collector for No.1 & Portswood Districts, 16 Bellevue Ter, St Mary's Rd, The Avenue, S'ton
BUNDEY Richard Henry unknown 1864 builder, 71 Clovelly Rd, S'ton
BUNDEY Sophie, Miss unknown (dtr. of H. ?) dressmaker, 134 Avenue Rd,
Bevois Mt, The Avenue, S'ton
BUNDEY William unknown 1864 9 Verulam Rd, Bevois Town
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BUNDY (?) c1730 c1755 - husband of (?) son of Edward BUNDY
BUNDY Charles Lewis unknown 1895 resident, 103 Lodge Rd.,
Bevois Mt, Southampton
BUNDY Edward 06.02.1717 c1742 - husband of (?)
Hurstbourne Tarrant
BUNDY Eliza Maria, Mrs unknown 1895 resident, Burton
BUNDY Elizabeth c1801 - - dtr of William BOUNDY
BUNDY George c1808 24.02.1833 - husband of Harriett YOUNG son of Joseph BUNDEY
Exbury
BUNDY Harriett (nee YOUNG)
BUNDY James c1802 c1827 - husband of Harriett (?) Mackland Farm
BUNDY James unknown 1895 greengrocer, 100 Bevois St
BUNDY John unknown 1895 farmer, Bossington
BUNDY Mary 21.10.1732 - - sister of (?) dtr of Edward BUNDY
Hurstbourne Tarrant
BUNDY Sarah (nee MARTELL)
BUNDY Sarah 1888 01.09.1908 - wife of George HAWEY unknown
Exbury
BUNDY Thomas unknown 1895 farmer, Upham
BUNDY Thomas unknown 1895 resident, Caradon, Poole Rd, Branksome, Bournemouth
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GREY Emma 1832 c1853 - wife of James BUNDAY/BUNDY
HAWEY George c1885 01.09.1908 - husband of Sarah BUNDY
Exbury
HAWEY Sarah (nee BUNDY)

Names appearing in the BUNDAY family tree (dates with 'c' = circa are guesses; red = direct line)
Names in italics are culled from Victorian directories
Surname Forenames Birth Marriage Death Relationship notes
MARTELL John c1730 c1755 husband of (?)
MARTELL John c1776 c1800 husband of (?) son of John MARTELL
MARTELL John 1804 - 12.1872 unknown
Fareham
MARTELL John 1810 - 03.1868 unknown
Portsea
MARTELL John c1846 03.1871 - unknown
Alverstoke
MARTELL John 09.1883 - - unknown
Fareham
MARTELL Sarah c1775 c1795 - wife of William BUNDY dtr of John MARTELL
MARTELL William c1777 - - son of John MARTELL
MOTT David c1815 10.1840 - husband of Mary BUNDAY
Exbury
NICHOLAS Annie (nee BUNDAY)
NICHOLAS Josias 1823 c1848 - husband of Annie BUNDAY see NICHOLAS tree
ORMAN Jane c1820 c1838 - wife of Samuel BUNDAY dtr of William ORMAN
ORMAN Hannah 18.01.1820 c1845 29.05.1905 wife of Francis BOUNDY dtr of William ORMAN
ORMAN William c1800 c1825 - husband of (?)
PETT Fanny (nee BUNDAY)
PETT John c1814 04.09.1839 - husband of Fanny BUNDAY son of John PETTS
Exbury London
PETTS John Fincher c1788 c1813 - husband of (?) commercial traveller
WATERIDGE Harriett (nee BUNDAY)
WATERIDGE (?) c1825 c1854 - husband of Harriett BUNDAY
YOUNG Harriett 1808 24.02.1833 - wife of George BUNDY sister of Samuel YOUNG
Fawley?
YOUNG Mary (nee BUNDAY)
YOUNG Samuel 1811 09.1836 - husband of Mary BUNDAY brother of Harriett YOUNG
Fawley

The BOUNDYs appear to have originated in Devon and are common in Cornwall
The MARTELLs appear in
i) Hants.: Alverstoke, Fareham, Portsea
ii) London: Bethnal Green, Camberwell, Hendon, Kensington, Marylebone, Pancras, St. Giles, Wandsworth
iii) Wales: Cardiff (S. Glam.); Bridgend [at least 10 other possibilities], Carmarthen, Haverfordwest, Narberth (Dyfed)
iv) Cheshire: Chorlton, Clifton [at least 29 other possibilities]
v) Gloucestershire: Westbury-on-Severn (Glos.)