Sorry it's been so long getting back. I have a basic descendency for the Bodkin family line, but not a lot of dates and places, ect.
I do have some information on your line of Thomas. I have that he was born July 24, 1808 in Yalding, Kent. Died Dec 20, 1883 in Horsmondend, Kent. I only have one marriage information for him, as you said you are descended from his second marriage. I have info on a marriage to Hannah Mimms on Dec 5, 1853. I have children listed as Amos, Mercy b. Ja 25, 1855, Esther b April 8, 1856 and Martha b. Jan 12, 1858.
Would love to be able to fill in the blanks there!
Thanks!